17th April 2012 in Durban - Half day (morning)
Our children are the evolution of ourselves. Everything that we have left ‘unlived’ in our lives gets passed to them until someone is brave enough to live the issue. By ‘living it’ I mean embracing the truth and feeling the full pain of the issue, until there is nothing remaining to feel. Many parents believe that if their children don’t directly observe their issue then it has no influence on them. They continue to hide the truth from their children believing they are protecting them, saving them from the pain, but in actual fact they are setting up a pattern that will return to the child later in life.
Everything we do, speak and more importantly feel inside is read by our children and absorbed into their unconscious and subconscious minds. Choosing to affirm positive support is key. Being aware of conflicting messages is vital. The language you use embeds minute messages within it that reveals the truth behind your actual feelings. If you present mixed messages children become stressed and confused and repeat those patterns of expression. Learn about being aware enough and holding enough respect for your ‘evolution’ to be honest and true. This will enable your children to acquire a greater degree of balance.
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